Christmas Eve Service Houston: Celebrate with St. John's Presbyterian

Christmas Eve Service Houston: Celebrate with St. John's Presbyterian


The Search for Christmas Eve Meaning in Houston


Every December, thousands of Houston families face the same question: where should we spend Christmas Eve? The city offers countless options, from massive productions with laser lights and smoke machines to intimate gatherings in small sanctuaries. But what if you're searching for something different this year? What if you want a Christmas Eve service that actually feels like Christmas?


At St. John's Presbyterian Church, we've been celebrating Christmas Eve the same way for nearly seven decades. Not because we're stuck in the past, but because some things shouldn't change. When you walk through our doors at 5:00 PM on December 24th, you won't find a rock concert or a theatrical production. You'll find something increasingly rare in Houston: a traditional Christmas Eve service that honors the sacred mystery of Christ's birth.


The truth is, many Houston churches have turned Christmas Eve into entertainment. They compete for attendance with bigger bands, flashier lights, and more elaborate staging. But somewhere in that competition, something precious gets lost. The quiet wonder of that first Christmas night. The simple beauty of candlelight reflecting off faces singing familiar carols. The power of ancient words spoken into modern hearts.



What Makes Our Christmas Eve Service Different


Starting with Sacred Space, Not Spectacle

When you arrive for our 5:00 PM Family Service, the first thing you'll notice is what's missing. No fog machines. No light show countdown. No video screens promoting upcoming programs. Instead, you'll find a sanctuary prepared for worship. Real candles waiting to be lit. Hymnals marked with carols your grandparents sang. A space that whispers rather than shouts.


This intentional simplicity isn't about being old-fashioned. It's about creating room for what matters. In a world that constantly demands our attention with noise and flash, Christmas Eve at St. John's offers something revolutionary: peace. The kind of peace the angels promised to shepherds on that first Christmas night.


Our sanctuary seats about 150 people comfortably. On Christmas Eve, we might have 200. Yes, it gets cozy. But that closeness creates something beautiful. When we sing "O Come, All Ye Faithful," you can actually hear your neighbors' voices, not just amplified sound from the stage. When we light candles for "Silent Night," you see real faces illuminated, not spotlights on performers.



Classical Music That Honors the Holy

Our music director understands something many churches have forgotten: Christmas music doesn't need improvement. The great carols of the faith have endured for centuries because they perfectly capture the mystery and majesty of the incarnation. We don't need to make them "relevant" with drum kits and electric guitars. They're already relevant because they speak eternal truths.


Our Chancel Choir prepares special music for Christmas Eve. Not performances designed to impress, but offerings meant to lead hearts toward worship. You might hear "O Holy Night" sung simply and beautifully, without vocal gymnastics or unnecessary embellishment. The choir might offer a classical piece by Bach or Handel, music that has carried the Christmas story for generations.


But here's what matters most: our music invites participation, not spectatorship. When we sing "Joy to the World," we expect you to sing. When "Hark! The Herald Angels Sing" begins, we want to hear your voice, whether it's perfectly pitched or wonderfully off-key. This isn't a concert where you applaud the musicians. It's worship where we all bring our offerings of praise.



Young Adults Reading Ancient Words

One of the most moving parts of our Christmas Eve service happens when our young adults step forward to read the Christmas story. Not children stumbling through unfamiliar words (though we love when children participate in other services), but young people in their twenties and thirties, choosing to proclaim these ancient texts.


There's something powerful about hearing a 25-year-old software developer read Luke's account of shepherds keeping watch over their flocks. Or listening to a young teacher share Isaiah's prophecy about a child being born to us. These aren't professional readers or trained actors. They're members of our community, standing before their church family, sharing the story that brought us all here.


We rotate readers throughout the service, weaving the narrative from Old Testament prophecy through the Gospel accounts. Each reader brings their own understanding, their own reverence, their own wonder to these familiar words. And somehow, hearing them read by people who could be at any number of Houston holiday parties but chose to be here instead, makes the story fresh again.



A Sermon That Connects, Not Performs

Protestant churches, especially Presbyterian ones, take preaching seriously. But on Christmas Eve, the sermon isn't the star of the show. The Christ child is. So our Christmas Eve message tends to be shorter than usual, more focused, more direct. We're not trying to dazzle with rhetorical brilliance or impress with theological complexity.


Instead, we try to do something harder: speak simple truth to tired hearts. Because let's be honest, by Christmas Eve, most of us are exhausted. We've battled Houston traffic to finish shopping. We've navigated complex family dynamics. We've tried to create perfect holidays while managing real life. We don't need a motivational speech or a theological lecture. We need to hear that God came near.


Our Christmas Eve sermons often focus on one simple aspect of the nativity story. Maybe it's the courage of Mary saying yes to God's impossible plan. Perhaps it's the vulnerability of God choosing to enter the world as a helpless infant. Or the radical hospitality of shepherds being the first to hear the good news. We take one thread from the familiar tapestry and follow it carefully, seeing where it leads our hearts.

The goal isn't to say something no one has ever said about Christmas. It's to say something true in a way that penetrates the holiday chaos and reaches the quiet place in each listener where wonder still lives.



The Candlelight Tradition That Defines Our Christmas Eve


More Than Just Pretty Lights

Every Christmas Eve service in Houston seems to include candles these days. But there's a difference between using candles as a prop and understanding them as a symbol. At St. John's, our candlelight service finale isn't just a photo opportunity. It's a theological statement.


As the service moves toward its conclusion, ushers begin distributing small white candles with paper guards. There's always a gentle rustle as people prepare, children being reminded to be careful, adults helping elderly neighbors with arthritic hands. This simple act of preparation is itself part of the ritual. We're getting ready for something.


When the lights begin to dim, starting with the overhead fixtures and moving to the wall sconces, a hush falls over the congregation. The advent wreath and altar candles provide the only illumination. Then, slowly, carefully, the light begins to spread. From the Christ candle to the aisle candles. From one person to their neighbor. Light shared, not hoarded. Light multiplied, not diminished in the sharing.



Silent Night as Prayer, Not Performance

When the sanctuary is glowing with hundreds of small flames, we begin to sing. "Silent Night, Holy Night." Not with organ accompaniment. Not with instrumental enhancement. Just voices, carrying the familiar melody through the darkness.

"All is calm, all is bright."


In that moment, it actually is. The frantic pace of Houston slows. The endless notifications on our phones don't matter. The complicated dynamics of family gatherings fade. We're simply people, holding light, singing an old song about a young mother and her miraculous child.

"Round yon virgin, mother and child. Holy infant so tender and mild."


The verses continue, and something happens that you won't find in many Houston churches. People cry. Not manipulated tears from an emotional video or a tragic story. But quiet tears of recognition. Of remembering what actually matters. Of feeling, maybe for the first time all season, the weight and wonder of the incarnation.


"Sleep in heavenly peace."


When the song ends, we stand in silence for a moment. Holding our candles. Holding the peace. Holding onto something sacred before we have to return to the ordinary world.



Who Finds Meaning in Our Christmas Eve Service


Families Seeking Sacred Tradition

You might think a traditional service wouldn't appeal to families with young children. After all, many Houston churches offer Christmas Eve "experiences" complete with games, prizes, and entertainment designed to keep kids engaged. But every year, we see families choosing something different.


They bring their children to St. John's because they want them to experience reverence. To learn that some moments deserve our quiet attention. To discover that joy doesn't always come with noise and activity. Sometimes it arrives in stillness and candlelight.


Our 5:00 PM start time respects both family schedules and children's bedtimes. We know that by 7:00 PM on Christmas Eve, most young families need to be heading home. But we also know that an hour spent in genuine worship can shape a child's understanding of Christmas more than any elaborate production.


Parents tell us their children remember our Christmas Eve services years later. Not because we gave them candy or showed them videos, but because we gave them something real. A chance to hold a candle carefully. An opportunity to sing songs their great-grandparents knew. A moment when the whole community focused on something bigger than themselves.



Adults Exhausted by Holiday Performance

Every year, we see new faces on Christmas Eve. Often, they're adults who've been attending larger Houston churches but found themselves longing for something simpler. They're tired of feeling like audience members at a holiday show. They want to be participants in worship.

These visitors often seem surprised by our service. Surprised that we actually expect them to sing. Surprised that no one is trying to impress them. Surprised that a service can be beautiful without being elaborate. Most surprised that something so simple can be so moving.

Some of these Christmas Eve visitors become regular attendees. They discover that what they experienced on Christmas Eve happens every Sunday at St. John's. Not the candles and special music, but the authenticity. The participation. The sense that worship is something we do together, not something performed for us.


Seniors Remembering Christmas Past

For many of our older members, Christmas Eve at St. John's feels like coming home. The carols we sing are the ones they learned as children. The scripture readings follow the pattern they remember from decades past. The candlelight recalls Christmas Eve services from their youth, before churches felt they had to compete with entertainment venues.


But this isn't just nostalgia. Our seniors aren't trying to recreate the past. They're preserving something valuable for the future. They know that in a city like Houston, where everything changes so quickly, some anchors of meaning need to remain fixed. They've lived long enough to see trends come and go, to watch churches chase relevance and lose their identity. They choose St. John's because we remember that Christmas Eve doesn't need reinvention.


These members often bring their adult children and grandchildren, wanting to share something precious before it's lost. They want their families to experience Christmas Eve worship that connects them to centuries of Christian tradition, not just current Christian trends.



The Practical Details That Matter


Arriving and Parking

Let's be practical for a moment. Houston traffic on Christmas Eve can be challenging, and West Bellfort Avenue gets busy. We recommend arriving by 4:45 PM to ensure you find parking and get settled before the service begins. Our parking lot holds about 150 cars, and on Christmas Eve, it fills up.


Here's a tip from someone who's navigated many Christmas Eve services: park on our side streets if the lot is full. Balmforth Lane, Cheena Drive, and Lymbar Drive are all within easy walking distance. Some of our neighbors even expect Christmas Eve visitors and leave their porch lights on as a welcome.


The walk from your car to our sanctuary might be the transition you need. Those few minutes moving from the chaos of Christmas Eve preparations to the peace of worship can help your heart shift gears. Let the Houston humidity or (if we're lucky) the cool December air remind you that you're entering a different kind of space.



What to Expect When You Enter

Our greeters will be at the doors with bulletins and warm smiles. They won't assault you with excessive friendliness or pressure you to fill out visitor cards. They understand that some people need anonymity on Christmas Eve, need to slip in quietly and just receive.


The bulletin will guide you through the service, listing carols and readings in order. Everything you need is either in the bulletin or the hymnal in your pew. We don't assume you know when to stand or sit, when to sing or listen. Gentle guidance is built into the service flow.


If you're bringing young children, know that we welcome their presence. We don't have a separate children's program on Christmas Eve because we believe families should worship together on this holy night. If your child gets restless, no one will glare. If they ask questions during quiet moments, consider it a blessing. If you need to step out, you'll find our narthex (entrance area) where you can still hear the service while giving your little one a break.



The Flow of the Service

Our Christmas Eve service follows a thoughtful rhythm. We begin with the lighting of the Christ candle, the white center candle in our Advent wreath. This moment marks the transition from Advent anticipation to Christmas celebration.


The call to worship follows, usually verses from Isaiah or the Psalms that proclaim the coming of God's light into darkness. Then our opening carol, typically "O Come, All Ye Faithful" or "Joy to the World," sung with full voice and genuine enthusiasm.


Scripture readings and carols alternate throughout the service. We move chronologically through the story, from prophecy to fulfillment, from angels to shepherds, from mystery to revelation. Each reading is followed by a carol that reflects on what we've just heard.


The sermon comes roughly midway through the service, offering a moment of reflection before we move toward the Table and candlelight. We celebrate communion on Christmas Eve, using the traditional Presbyterian words of institution. All are welcome at the Table, regardless of church membership or denomination.


After communion, we prepare for the candlelight finale. The entire service typically lasts about 65 minutes, though time seems to move differently on Christmas Eve. Some years it feels like mere moments; others, like we're suspended in eternity.



Why This Kind of Christmas Eve Service Matters


Resisting the Pressure to Perform

Houston churches face enormous pressure to create spectacular Christmas Eve productions. Church growth consultants insist that Christmas Eve is your best opportunity to attract new members, so you must impress them. Make it bigger. Make it better. Make it unforgettable.

But what if the most impressive thing a church can do is resist that pressure? What if the most attractive quality is authenticity? What if what people really need on Christmas Eve isn't another performance but a genuine encounter with the sacred?


At St. John's, we've chosen to be countercultural. In a city that celebrates bigness, we remain intentionally small. In a culture that demands innovation, we maintain tradition. In a religious marketplace that treats worshipers as consumers, we invite people to be participants.


This isn't easy. We know that some visitors leave disappointed that we didn't put on a show. We know that some families choose churches with more elaborate children's programs. We know that we're not competing well in the attention economy. But we also know that what we offer has value precisely because it's increasingly rare.


Creating Space for Authentic Encounter

The simplicity of our Christmas Eve service creates space for something profound: authentic encounter with the divine. Without the distraction of elaborate production, hearts can open to wonder. Without the pressure to be impressed, souls can simply receive.


Every Christmas Eve, we witness these encounters. The young father who hasn't been to church in years, suddenly moved to tears during "Silent Night." The teenager forced to attend by parents, finding herself unexpectedly touched by the ancient story read by someone barely older than herself. The widow attending her first Christmas Eve service alone, feeling held by a community that sings familiar songs in the darkness.


These moments can't be programmed or produced. They arise from the mysterious intersection of human longing and divine presence. Our job as a church isn't to create these moments but to prepare space for them. To remove obstacles. To quiet the noise. To light the candles and trust that God still speaks in the stillness.




Connecting to the Larger Christian Story

When you celebrate Christmas Eve at St. John's, you're joining a tradition that stretches back not just decades but centuries. The carols we sing were sung by Christians during plagues and wars, during prosperity and depression, in freedom and persecution. The scriptures we read have been proclaimed in countless languages across endless Christmas Eves.


This connection to the larger Christian story matters more than we might realize. In our individualistic age, we forget that faith is communal, historical, transmitted through generations. When we sing "Silent Night" by candlelight, we're not just creating a nice moment. We're claiming our place in an ancient and ongoing story.


The Presbyterian tradition particularly values this connection to history. We don't believe the church started with us or that we need to reinvent Christianity for every generation. We're part of something bigger, older, deeper than ourselves. Christmas Eve at St. John's reminds us of this truth in tangible ways.


An Invitation to Something Different This Christmas Eve


Beyond the Houston Christmas Rush

If you're reading this, you're probably tired. December in Houston is exhausting. Between the shopping at the Galleria, the office parties downtown, the family obligations across the sprawling metroplex, and the constant battle with I-610 traffic, you're worn out. The last thing you need is another elaborate production demanding your attention and applause.


What if Christmas Eve could be different? What if instead of adding to your exhaustion, it could offer rest? What if instead of demanding performance, it could invite participation? What if instead of trying to impress you, a church simply tried to worship with you?


That's what we offer at St. John's. Not because we're better than other churches, but because we've chosen a different path. We've decided that Christmas Eve worship doesn't need enhancement. The story of God becoming human, of divine love taking on flesh, of heaven touching earth in a stable, that story is enough. More than enough.


A Personal Invitation from Pastor Jon

I'll be honest with you. Leading Christmas Eve service is one of my favorite moments of the entire year. Not because I enjoy being in front of people or because I like the attention. But because I get to witness transformation.

Every Christmas Eve, I watch stressed, exhausted, distracted people enter our sanctuary. I see the weight they carry, the tiredness in their eyes, the forced cheerfulness that the season demands. Then something happens. As we sing the old songs, as we hear the ancient words, as we share the light in darkness, something shifts.


Shoulders relax. Breathing deepens. Faces soften. For one holy hour, the performance ends. The striving ceases. People remember why we celebrate Christmas in the first place. Not because we've achieved perfect families or perfect holidays, but because God entered our imperfect world and called it beloved.


I'd love for you to experience this with us. Whether you're a lifelong Presbyterian or haven't darkened a church door in decades. Whether you know every word to every carol or need to read along in the hymnal. Whether you come with a large family or slip in alone. You're welcome here.


Making Your Christmas Eve Decision

Choosing where to spend Christmas Eve in Houston isn't really about choosing a church service. It's about choosing what kind of experience you want to mark this holy night. Do you want to be entertained or invited to worship? Do you want to watch a performance or participate in a tradition? Do you want to be impressed or transformed?


If you're drawn to spectacle and production, St. John's probably isn't the right choice for you. Houston has plenty of churches offering elaborate Christmas Eve experiences, and there's nothing wrong with choosing them. Different people need different things.

But if you're longing for something simpler, deeper, quieter this Christmas Eve, we'd love to welcome you. If you want to hold a candle and sing "Silent Night" with people who will mean it. If you want to hear the Christmas story read without embellishment or interpretation, just the beautiful, mysterious words themselves. If you want to spend one hour on Christmas Eve actually feeling the peace the angels promised.

Come join us at 5:00 PM on December 24th. Park on a side street if you need to. Arrive a few minutes early to settle your heart. Bring your tired self, your complicated family, your mixture of joy and sorrow that every Christmas carries. Bring your voice to sing, your ears to hear, your heart to receive.


We'll provide the candles, the carols, and a community that still believes Christmas Eve is holy. Not because we make it holy with our efforts, but because we stop our efforts long enough to notice the holiness that's already there. In a baby's birth. In ancient songs. In light shared from one person to another until the whole room glows.


This is Christmas Eve at St. John's Presbyterian Church. Simple. Traditional. Real. And in a Houston filled with elaborate alternatives, that might be exactly what your soul needs this year.


St. John's Presbyterian Church is located at 5020 West Bellfort Avenue in Houston. Our Christmas Eve Family Service begins at 5:00 PM on December 24th. For those unable to attend in person, consider joining us for regular Sunday worship at 11:00 AM, where you'll find the same commitment to authentic, participatory worship throughout the year. Learn more about our community at [Bible Study Houston: Where to Find Scripture Study That Goes Deeper] or discover [What Makes Presbyterian Worship Unique].



About the Author

Pastor Jon has served St. John's Presbyterian Church in Houston for over a decade and is the author of 34+ books on Christian spirit available on Amazon. 


He is an innovator in both the community and at the church, bringing in major initiatives like the Single Parent Family Ministry housing with PCHAS, the One Hope Preschool program, and expanding the community garden that brings together church members and neighbors. 


Under his leadership, St. John's has become known for practical service that makes a real difference in the community. 


His approach is simple: "We're real people who worship and serve Jesus Christ with no frills."

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When You Need to Plan Ahead: Pre-Funeral Conversations Nobody wants to think about their own funeral, but I've learned that the families who have the easiest time planning services are the ones who had these conversations beforehand. If you're reading this not because someone just died, but because you're thinking ahead (which is wise, not morbid), consider talking with your family about: Where you'd want your service held Which hymns or music matter to you Scripture passages that have sustained you Whether you want family to speak or prefer just pastoral words What you'd want your service to emphasize about your life and faith You can also talk with a pastor before crisis hits. At St. John's, I'm happy to meet with anyone thinking about end-of-life planning. These conversations are never depressing. Often they're meaningful and even beautiful, as people reflect on what has mattered most in their lives. Some people write their own funeral service, choosing readings and hymns that reflect their faith journey. Others just share general wishes with family, trusting them to make good decisions when the time comes. Either approach works, and both are better than leaving your family guessing during grief. What Makes St. John's Different: The Mission Connection Here's something you won't find in most articles about funeral services, but it matters: where you hold a funeral service makes a statement about what mattered to the deceased and what matters to the family left behind. At St. John's, we're known for mission work. We operate a community garden that supplies fresh produce to food pantries serving hundreds of families weekly. We support an orphanage in Uganda, provide resources to Houston's International Seafarer's Center, and work closely with Braes Interfaith Ministries to meet practical needs in our community. This means when you hold a service at St. John's, you're connecting your loved one's memory to ongoing work that matters. Memorial gifts given in their name support real ministry to real people facing real struggles. The church building where you gather isn't just a pretty space, it's a launching pad for mission work that changes lives. For families who want their loved one's death to somehow contribute to life for others, this context matters. Your father's memorial service becomes part of a larger story about faith in action, about a church community that doesn't just talk about loving neighbors but actually does it, week after week, year after year. How to Contact Us About Funeral Services If you're reading this because you need funeral services now, here's what to do: Call our church office at 713-723-6262. If it's after hours or on a weekend, email Pastor Jon's or text or call his cell number for emergencies. Don't hesitate to call. Death is exactly the kind of emergency pastors expect. When you call, you'll talk with someone who will ask a few basic questions: Who died? When? Are you thinking about a date and time for the service? Is the deceased connected to St. John's in any way? Then we'll schedule a meeting, usually within 24 to 48 hours, where we can sit down together, talk about your loved one, and plan a service that honors their life and supports your grief. Bring photos if you want. Bring other family members who need to be part of the planning. Bring your questions and your stress and your sadness, and we'll work through it together. If you're planning ahead rather than in crisis, the same number works. Just let us know you're calling about pre-planning, and we'll schedule a more relaxed conversation. You can also email us at office.sjpc@gmail.com, though calling is faster if you're in immediate need. What Happens When You Can't Afford a Traditional Funeral Let me address one more reality that families face: sometimes there's no money for a traditional funeral. Maybe the deceased had no life insurance. Maybe medical bills consumed everything. Maybe you're barely covering basic burial costs. At St. John's, we still welcome you. We can hold a simple memorial service with no elaborate flowers, no printed programs if those add cost you can't manage, no expensive anything. We'll gather people who loved this person, we'll pray and sing and remember, and we'll do it with dignity regardless of budget. Some of the most meaningful services I've conducted have been the simplest. A dozen people in our sanctuary, a few shared stories, some tears and some laughter, a commitment of this life into God's care. That's enough. That's actually more than enough when it's genuine. If burial costs are also overwhelming, I can sometimes connect families with resources that help. Houston has organizations that assist with funeral expenses for low-income families. I can't promise solutions, but I can help you look for options you might not know exist. The point is this: dignity in death shouldn't depend on economics. We won't make your grief harder by adding financial stress or making you feel less-than because you can't afford what funeral homes market as "proper" services. A Final Word About Searching "Funeral Services Near Me" You probably found this article because you're in pain. Someone you love is gone, and you're trying to figure out what to do next, where to hold a service that will honor them and support your family and feel somehow adequate to this enormous loss. No funeral service is adequate, actually. That's the hard truth. No matter how beautiful the flowers, how perfect the music, how eloquent the words, nothing makes death okay. Nothing fills the hole left by a person you loved. But sacred ritual helps. Community helps. Having a space where you can name the loss and remember the love and cry without apologizing helps. Being surrounded by people who show up, who bring food, who hug you and mean it, who remember your loved one or commit to honoring them through their presence even if they never met—all of this helps. At St. John's Presbyterian Church in Houston, we've been helping families through death since 1956. We're not experts in grief (nobody is), but we're experienced companions for the journey. We know what helps and what doesn't. We know how to hold space for pain without rushing to fix it. We know how to testify to resurrection hope without pretending death isn't terrible. If you're searching for funeral services near you, you've found one option. We're here, we're ready, and we're honored to walk with you through this valley. Come as you are. Bring your grief, your questions, your exhaustion, your faith or your doubt. We'll figure out together how to honor the life that was lived and support the ones left behind. That's what church is for. For more information about St. John's Presbyterian Church and the ways we support our community, visit our page about Christian Church Near Me: Why St. John's Presbyterian Stands Out. If you're also looking for other ways to connect with our faith community, explore our Bible Study Houston: Where to Find Scripture Study That Goes Deeper offerings. And if you're interested in learning more about our mission orientation and what that means, read Mission-Oriented Church Houston: Finding the People Actually Doing God's Work .
By Jon Burnham October 1, 2025
The Epistle for October 1, 2025 October 1, 2025   "Faith in the Storm" - Our Job Sermon Series in Book Form Dear Church Family,  As we conclude our Job sermon series this Sunday, I'm excited to share that the sermons, studies, and worship resources we've been using are being published as a book: Faith in the Storm: Finding Hope in the Book of Job. This comprehensive resource will be available on Amazon in the coming days. Over these past weeks, we've walked together through Job's journey—from devastating loss to honest lament, from the silence of God to His voice in the whirlwind, and finally to restoration that honors our scars. Many of you have shared how Job's story has given you permission to grieve honestly while still trusting God. That's exactly why this book exists: to help churches create sacred space for both tears and praise, for questions and faith, for lament and hope. The book includes all five sermons from our series, complete worship liturgies for every season, healing service resources, small group discussion materials, and personal reflection exercises. Whether you want to revisit the sermons we've shared, lead your own study group, or gift it to someone walking through their own storm, this resource transforms Job's ancient witness into contemporary hope. It doesn't offer easy answers—instead, it provides something better: companionship for the journey and trust in the God who speaks through storms. Thank you for wrestling with these hard questions alongside me. Your honest engagement with suffering and faith has shaped this resource. As Job discovered, and as we've learned together: "God speaks in the storm; we trust in God's faithfulness." Grace and peace, Pastor Jon     Advent Innovations Workshop *Saturday, October 4 *McPhail Hall, St. John’s Presbyterian Church Advent is the season that leads us into Christmas—a time of hope, waiting, and preparation. Join us for a workshop exploring fresh opportunities for spiritual formation this year. Together we’ll share ideas and plans for: Creative spirituality and prayer centers Special services of comfort for those who are grieving Educational events for all ages And more ways to deepen our walk with God Come, bring your imagination, and help shape meaningful practices for this holy season. 👉 Register in advance so we have a head count for lunch. Register here: https://form.jotform.com/252387241427054     Healing Hearts: A New Ministry of Care and Encouragement Healing Hearts will meet in the church office building in the Prayer Room on Wednesday, October 8th from 7:00PM to 8:00PM and on Monday, October 27th from 11:00AM to 12:00 Noon. Healing Hearts, a grief and bereavement support group. Led by Lisa Sparaco, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and member of our church, this group will provide a safe and faith-filled space for sharing stories, receiving encouragement, and walking together through seasons of loss. This is not a therapy group, but a ministry of care and prayer for all who grieve. Healing Hearts is open both to members of St. John’s and to the wider community. We encourage you to share this opportunity with your friends and neighbors who may need such support. Meetings will take place in the Prayer Room, beginning in October 2025, on the second Wednesday of each month from 7:00–8:00 PM and the last Monday of each month from 11:00 AM–12:00 Noon. This schedule provides both an evening option for those who work during the day and a daytime option for those who prefer not to drive at night.   Men of the Church The Men of the Church meets tonight, Wednesday, October 1, at 6:30 PM in the Session Room. All men are welcome to attend.   Apostle's Creed Class We recite the Apostle’s Creed every Sunday in church. It is an ancient creed – it first appears in a form close to what we recite in 341AD. The creed summarizes essential doctrines and serves as a unifying symbol across various Christian denominations. However, it is very easy to recite the creed by rote without really understanding the importance of these doctrines to our Christian faith. The CE committee is offering an opportunity to dive into the Apostle’s creed to understand where these doctrine come from and why they are important. The class will be on 18 Oct from 8:30am to 2pm. Lunch will be provided. There is a sign up sheet in the Narthex so we can get a good head count for the materials and for lunch. We hope to see you there!   Nominating Committee The Nominating Committee for this year is composed of Shirley Boyd, Moderator; Michael Bisase, Clerk; and members Jim Austin, Franklin Caspa, and Wright Williams. If you have a suggestion for someone to serve as elder, please speak with one of them so your candidate may be prayerfully considered. We move forward in trust, asking God to open hearts, provide willing servants, and grant us wisdom in our discernment.   Peacemaking Offering On October 5, We will celebrate World Communion Sunday. We will also collect the Peace and Global Witness Offering . It enables the church to promote the Peace of Christ by addressing systems of conflict and injustice across the world. Through the Peace & Global Witness Offering, congregations are encouraged and equipped to find and address the anxiety and discord that is prevalent throughout this broken and sinful world. Envelopes are at the back of the sanctuary. The Peace and Global Witness Offering enables the church to promote the Peace of Christ by addressing systems of conflict and injustice across the world. Through the Peace & Global Witness Offering, congregations are encouraged and equipped to find and address the anxiety and discord that is prevalent throughout this broken and sinful world. 25% retained by congregations to support peacemaking efforts in their local communities. 25% retained by mid councils to support peacemaking efforts at the regional level. 50% supports peacemaking, reconciliation and global witness.   Living Gift Market – November 16, 2025 Mark your calendars! St. John’s will host the annual Living Gift Market on Sunday, November 16, 2025. This special event is part of our Faith in Action ministry, connecting us with global mission partners and providing an opportunity to give gifts that make a real difference in the lives of others . This year, we also plan to enjoy a fellowship meal during the market. Because several of our faithful cooks are ill or caring for loved ones, we are asking for help from the congregation. Beginning this Sunday, a sign-up sheet will be available in the Narthex for those willing to bring a dish. Your contribution will bless the whole church family and help make the market a joyful celebration of giving and sharing. Come, participate, and let’s make this year’s Living Gift Market a true witness to God’s abundance.     Friends of Lulwanda Fellowship Dinner Saturday, October 4, 5-8 PM Memorial Drive Presbyterian On Saturday, October 4, come and see how God is working at Lulwanda Children’s Home! Memorial Drive Presbyterian Church Fellowship Hall. 5-8 pm. $30 per person. Speak to Libby Adams if you plan to attend as she has reserved a table for us. Or, click here to register. We Want to Go Home Are these your dishes? If so, they are in the McPhail Hall kitchen waiting to be taken home! You can contact Virginia Krueger or Alvina Hamilton to pick them up. Thank you!   Alina Klimaszewska will be in Concert Friday, October 3, 7:30 pm, Belin Chapel, Houston Christian University. Alina and Dominika Dancewicz, The Polish Duo, will perform “Myths, Fables and Fairytales.” Don’t miss this wonderful concert.   Sunday Afternoon Zoom Book Study for Adults Have you ever wondered if you are following God’s will for your life? That you got it right? And just exactly how do you know? In the book The Way of Discernment by Steve Doughty, he draws from classic authors like Augustine and contemporary ones like Dietrich Bonhoeffer to reveal powerful ways in which to understand the practice of discernment. This is a study seeking clarity in discovering God’s guidance for both your personal and congregational life. Beginning on September 7 at 1:30pm on Zoom, come and join in from the comfort of your own home. This intriguing study will definitely deepen your faith and bless your spiritual journey. Books are available at Amazon.com (choose the green cover edition). Contact Lynne Parsons for the Zoom link at lynnep@sbcglobal.net. Everyone is invited.   T-Shirts Ready for Pick Up The St. John’s T-shirts will be in this week, we hope, and ready for pickup this Sunday, Sept. 28 after church service. Extras were ordered so if you need more or never got around to ordering, you are in luck! To help defray the cost of their purchase, we are asking for a “love offering” if you are able.   With hearts united in hope, we lift these names into the healing presence of God.  Harriet Harper, in hospice care Tom Edmondson, recovering from spinal surgery Mary Hughes, recovering from shoulder surgery and flu Family of Evie Nielson Holly Darr, health concerns Family of Gerry Jump Karen Alsbrook, health Kelsey Wiltz, health concerns Glen Risley, health concerns Family of Barm Alsbrook, death in family in Tennessee Madalyn Rodgers, Kathleen Captain's sister Joe Sanford, Scott Moore and Alice Rubio Those looking for a job St. Johns College Students Raina Bailey and the families in our PCHAS homes One Hope Preschool families and staff Caring for One Another in Prayer Our prayer list is a vital way we support one another, lifting up joys and concerns before God. From time to time, we update the list to ensure it reflects current needs. If a name has been removed and you would like it added back, please reply to this email and let us know who they are and why you would like them included. Your input helps us pray more intentionally and stay connected to those in need of ongoing support. Thank you for being part of this ministry of care and intercession. Prayer List Update – How Can We Pray for You? As part of our commitment to intentional and meaningful prayer, we periodically refresh our prayer list to ensure we are staying connected with those who need support. If you or someone you previously requested would like to remain on the prayer list, or if you have a new name to add, please reply to this email and let us know. We are grateful for the opportunity to pray with and for you.     Happy Birthday Bryan Boyd (Laurie Henderson’s son) (Sept 27) Linsey Sen-Roy (Sept 28) Dave Muanza (Oct. 1) Virgil Fisher (Oct. 2) Christine Nelson and Amy Caraballo (Oct. 7) Barm Alsbrook (Oct 9) Alice Rubio, Jeffery Herbert(Oct. 10) Stewart Hall (Oct. 14) Brandon Mulder (Oct. 15) Elizabeth Ragan (Oct. 16) Jamie Crawford (Oct. 18) Atillio Ator (Oct. 19) Jonathan Hughes and Fran Urquhart (Oct. 24) James Adams (Oct. 25) Joene Moore and Nathan Herbert (Oct. 28) Happy Anniversary Dan and Linda Herron (Oct. 11) Barm and Karen Alsbrook (Oct. 15) Church Calendar Thursday, September 25 5:00 pm Exercise Class, Building Sunday, September 28, 16 th Sunday after Pentecost 9:30 am Sunday School for Adults, Lectionary, Session Room 11:00 am Worship Service, live in sanctuary and on Facebook 1:30 pm Book Study: The Way of Discernment, Zoom Coming Events Fri, Oct 3, Alina Klimaszewska in concert, HCU Sat, Oct 4, Advent Innovation - Spiritual Formation, 10 – 2, McPhail Sun, Oct 5, Caring and Fellowship Meeting immediately after church in Room 203 Wed, Oct 8, 7 to 8 pm, Healing Hearts, Room 202 Thurs, Oct 9, St. John's Friends United (formerly Keenagers), Potluck, Learn Mahjong Sat, Oct. 11, Blessing of the Animals, Courtyard October 12, Stewardship Season begins Sat, Oct 18, “Apostle’s Creed” Class, Session Room Mon, Oct 27, 11 to noon, Healing Hearts, Room 202 Nov 2, All Saints Service Sun, Nov 16, Living Gift Market Sun, Nov 30, First Sunday of Advent Thurs, Nov 27, Thanksgiving Sat, Dec 13, “What is the Gospel” Class, Session Room Wed, Dec 24, Christmas Eve Service, 7 pm Church Calendar Online For other dates, see St. John’s Calendar online: https://www.stjohnspresby.org/events/     2025 Session Members and Roles Elders on the Session: Class of 2025 Shirley Boyd: Christian Education Virginia Krueger: Caring & Fellowship Leonie Tchoconte: Caring & Fellowship Elders on the Session: Class of 2026 Barm Alsbrook: Stewardship and Finance Michael Bisase: Buildings and Grounds Jan Herbert: Christian Education Elders on the Session: Class of 2027 Lynne Parsons Austin: Worship Omar Ayah: Faith in Action Marie Kutz: Personnel and Administration Other Session Leaders and Support Staff Jon Burnham: Moderator of Session Lynne Parsons Austin: Clerk to Session Tad Mulder: Church Treasurer Amy Caraballo: Financial Secretary     Kingdom Stewardship: Lessons from the Sermon on the Mount Coming next month, as we move into Stewardship Season, we will move into a new sermon series. Throughout "Kingdom Stewardship: Lessons from the Sermon on the Mount," we explore how Jesus' teachings guide us in stewarding all aspects of our lives—our blessings, influence, resources, relationships, and faith. By aligning ourselves with kingdom principles, we become effective stewards who advance God's purposes on earth. This series challenges us to examine where our treasures lie, to seek God's kingdom above all else, and to build our lives on the solid foundation of Christ the King. This series thoughtfully incorporates significant dates such as All Saints' Day and Christ the King Sunday, aligning their themes with the overarching focus on stewardship. By pairing teachings from the Sermon on the Mount with complementary Old Testament passages, we gain a deeper understanding of God's call to live as faithful stewards in every area of our lives.   Church Office Hours and Contact Info Our church office is open Monday through Thursday, from 10:00 a.m. to noon. Pastor Jon is typically available on Monday and Tuesday mornings, Alvina Hamilton serves on Wednesdays, and Linda Herron staffs the office on Thursdays. If you need assistance outside of these hours, please don’t hesitate to call us at 713-723-6262. To submit updates for the Prayer List or contributions to the Wednesday Epistle, kindly email Pastor Jon directly. Put "Epistle" in the subject line to make sure it gets in the Epistle. Church Website and Calendar Online Our church website: https://www.stjohnspresby.org/ For dates, times, and events, see St. John’s Calendar online: https://www.stjohnspresby.org/events/ Email Pastor Jon to request an addition to the church calendar or to add an event or article to The Epistle.
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